can't join a world with 25MB+

When I try to join a world that has too many add-ons, I simply can't. It begins the download but I get disconnected before it finishes. My friends can't join my world if I put many add-ons too, and I have friends form multiple platforms that tried, without success: mobile, PC and Xbox too.

I found out that whenever you have an addon in your world that is 25MB,+ in size, no one will be able to join it, at least they buy the same add-ons as you. The only way to make it happen is to put those add-ons in a realm. So, the only way to make it work is spending more money…

This bug is here for months now, I've seen bug reports from more than a year relating the same problem. Add-ons are very broken because of this and I'm not buying anything more until I can play them properly with my friends without spending more and more money. I'm already spending money in add-ons that I can't use properly. please fix.