Minecraft Server Just display coming soon, realm won’t load, and can’t even join my own world because it’s just freeze whenever sign in xbox account

I’m currently not currently maybe 2 months ago already have this issue, whenever i’m sign in my Xbox account in Minecraft, that happened, I cannot join any server or even my own world, my world is just a normal survival world i made and i still can get in it when i sign out of my xbox account, I already search on youtube and there’s a video show how to fix that, but it’s need vpn, vpn is just slow if you don’t pay moneys so that’s the main problem, joining server is just lagging non stop and I can’t even play it normally, please just fix this, I actually payed moneys just to play multiplayer and this happened, it’s really not fun to pay the moneys for a feature you wanted and it’s not working, now i’m just playing offline on my world like a cracked player, i should just download it from the 3rd party app and play offline after all.