I can't join any of my realms unless another player sends me an invite while they are playing in that realm.

What happens when you try to join (messages, etc)?
Are you logged in with the correct (realm owner) account? You might also try logging out of your account and back in.
Are you shown as the owner in the realms list?
Are you able to "manage" the realm (close, open, etc)? If so, you might try closing and reopening the realm.

If you are still not able to access your purchased realm please contact the Minecraft Help Center.

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I get the error message shown in the screenshot below.  Other screenshots showing that I do have access to realm management.

I logged out of my microsoft account yesterday and restarted.  This allowed me to join the realm one time, but the original error came back after the one successful login.  I am able to join other people's realms with no problems.

The same thing has been happening to my friend and me. My friend owns the realm and that is the message that we get when we try to join his realm.

I am still experiencing this problem.  Just tried to log into all 3 of my realms after logging out and restarting my computer and I got the same error for all 3 realms.

Hi

Does this issue still occur after updating to 1.19.73?

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