i keep getting kicked from me realm with the message "Internal Exception: java.net.SocketException; Connection reset"

a few years back i had a realm subscription for a few months and had no problems, but a few months ago i opened a new realm and it would kick me every few minutes with the message "Internal Exception: java.net.SocketException; Connection reset". i havent changed computers, moved locations uninstalled minecraft, or messed with any settings. i tried to play consistently for a week and the longest i could stay in the world before being kicked was about 10-15 mins. today i bought ANOTHER subscription hoping it would be fixed and after 3 mins the same exact message would pop up.