Realms glitching

I have a 3 person realm and when any of us come back out of the nether we have to save quite immediately and load back in because half of our double chests vanish when we don’t. Also when we use a composter it glitches out on us and will say it’s full but we can’t get the bonemeal out. I have noticed 1 other thing on my end, a lot of the time random chunks don’t want to load and I have to quit and rejoin for it to work, the other 2 people that I’m on with don’t have that 3rd problem. I play on ps4 they play on a ps5 and an Xbox