First I died and couldn't play. Then I played but i couldn't access the building equipment. Then when I played again everyone's cake but mine was destroyed

First I died and couldn't play the first game. Then I came out but i couldn't access the building equipment. Then when I played again everyone's cake but mine was destroyed. I rebooted my game, But it done nothing When I played again I couldn't access anything but the chests from my island. 

my YouTube video:https://youtu.be/QRtAFzTTmrY

(It missed some of the parts out that I was explaining.)