io.netty.channel.abstractChannel$AnnotatedConnectException: Connection refused: no further information

What I expected to happen was...:
I tried to connect myself to my friends server

What actually happened was...:
It show me an error with the message: "io.netty.channel.abstractChannel$AnnotatedConnectException: Connection refused: no further information"

i already tried other minecraft version, reinstalling minecraft, connect to other server, turn off my firewall, changing connection and it still not work