Every time I keep trying to log in to play with my friends on our realm I keep getting the message realms (429) with no explanation and none of the community fixes have helped at all
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This report is actually a duplicate of REALMS-6147. Please see this link for further details regarding your problem.
This seems like a technical support question. I recommend heading to the Minecraft Community Support discord server, where volunteers can assist you.