Put the summary of the bug you're having here
What I expected to happen was...:
Join my realm
What actually happened was...:
A "Timed out" message showed after attempting to join
Steps to Reproduce:
1. Join the realm server
2. Timed out message appears
Note:
All of the people that I have invited are able to join
Edit: After another attempt I have now gotten this message. This message does not appear as frequently as the original "Timed out" message.
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