I cannot play on any server since the 15th october

Would MC-227913 describe you're issue?

Yes, but even after trying these step, the problem still occur

i've tried everything and i'm starting to get pissed, its been 3 days now ive been trying everything, nothing worked, the issue occur still, i join the server i get disconect instantly or 30 sec after log in

@unknown Please check the Mod Note and see if that helps:
Mod Note
Some things you could try to troubleshoot if your servers aren't loading or if you get a "Internal Exception: java.net.SocketException: Connection Reset" Error:

1. Make sure the new OpenJDK16 is allowed through the Windows Firewall.

   1. Press the Windows Key and type "firewall."

   2. Click on "Allow an app through Windows Firewall."

   3. In the new window, press "O" on your keyboard and look for "OpenJDK Platform Binary."

   4. If you find it, make sure both the checkbox on the left, as well as both checkboxes on the right, are checked. Then click OK and try Minecraft again.

   5. If you do not find that entry, click Change Settings, then click Allow another app...

   6. If you're using the legacy launcher, click Browse, then navigate to:

      C:\Program Files (x86)\Minecraft Launcher\runtime\java-runtime-delta\windows-x64\java-runtime-delta\bin\

      and select 'javaw.exe', click Open, then Add.

1. 1. If you're using the Microsoft Store launcher, click Browse, then navigate to:

      C:\Users\user\AppData\Local\Packages\Microsoft.4297127D64EC6_8wekyb3d8bbwe\LocalCache\Local\runtime\java-runtime-delta\windows-x64\java-runtime-gamma\bin\

      and select 'javaw.exe', click Open, then Add. (Note: Your Microsoft. folder may differ from the path here. If so, navigate through each Microsoft. folder in the directory until you find the right one)

1. 1. Click OK and try Minecraft again.

2. Try disabling all VPNs, Hamachi, Antiviruses, and firewalls (especially third-party firewalls)

3. Try on another connection, such as mobile data via wireless hotspot or USB tethering.

4. Try creating a new profile in the launcher (Installations -> New), setting it to 1.18.2 (not latest release), and trying that new profile.

5. Try the following on Windows:

   1. Press the Windows Key, then type cmd.

   2. Under 'Command Prompt,' click Run as administrator

   3. Type netsh winsock reset and press Enter.

   4. Type netsh int ip reset and press Enter.

   5. Type ipconfig /release and press Enter.

   6. Type ipconfig /renew and press Enter.

   7. Type ipconfig /flushdns and press Enter.

   8. Press the Windows Key, then type {+}cmd{+}, right click on "Command Prompt," and click *Run as Adminstrator*.

   9. Type netsh interface tcp show global and press Enter.

   10. If Receive-Side Scaling State is disabled, type netsh interface tcp set global rss=enabled and press enter.

   11. If "Receive Window Auto-Tuning Level" is disabled, type netsh interface tcp set global autotuninglevel=normal and press enter.

   12. Restart Minecraft and try the realm/server again.

Like i said, i have done all those things, none of these worked, even my friends tried it, nothing work,, it seemed to append since 15th october, its a shame that we cannot play on a server that we paid

It seem to work in vanilla now at least, i wait to see if this occur again

i reseted the server and the issue is gone, not sure why tho