Twice in survival multiplayer my horse/donkey/mule and even animals close to it became invisible when I untied the lead from a fencepost. The first time my donkey disappeared for good when I relogged, the second time my horse came back.
In the picture you can see the lead on the fencepost but no horse. My friend on the picture could put a lead on the horse, but not ride it or open up the inventory.
Please force a crash by pressing F3 + C for 10 seconds while in-game and attach the crash report (
[minecraft|http://hopper.minecraft.net/help/finding-minecraft-data-folder]/crash-reports/crash-<DATE>-client.txt
) here.