Massive Lag Spikes Issues

It's really about time I addressed this issue, I'm sick and tired of this happening to me constantly. I play on an xbox one x, a powerful console, but Minecraft absolutely lags so much on it, its been happening since 1.12. I've had to deal with this for who knows how long now. I've been having massive lag spikes and fps drops on Minecraft, I can't even play on my own world's without having lag issues, I can't play on my friends world with having crappy performance, I can't even play on Featured Servers without having lag issues, ex. The Hive, it's a very stable bedrock server, I can play on there just fine on my 4GB RAM phone, but when I play on there on my Xbox One X, I start having massive frame drops for no reason. Everything about this game is SO laggy, the menus are laggy, the store fails to load up even when I have a good internet connection, the servers fail to pop up half the time with the stupid "coming soon" thing, even in-game, when I open my settings, it takes like 5 seconds to load, ITS ABSOLUTELY REDICULOUS, when scrolling or activating something in my settings causes my game to lag. I joined the 1.16.210 beta for Xbox One X, I tried using the FPS Counter in the debug text up at the top of the screen to keep track of my FPS, every single interactions I make in-game or in the menus causes my frames to completely drop to like, eg. 15 FPS EVEN 10, it's about time I addressed this, you guys seriously need to fix this. Before you say anything, I have provided some proof of my issue: https://youtu.be/jBCJbVbMgc8, I've made a YouTube video explaining a good majority of the issue. Please watch it before you make any assumptions or give any solutions to my issue. Trust me, I have tried almost everything to get help with this single issue. So please help me, Im actually sick and tired of this.