Realms constantly crashing/disconnecting

Me and a group of friends have a realm and we load into it fine but within 2 to 5 minutes of being in the game we all disconnect and it sets us back so we could of done plenty of work in that time frame and it makes us go back and we are having to redo everything again, I know there's issues with PS4 and Switch but nothing has been said about Xbox edition, any help or advice would be appreciated, we switched the realm on a different server and still are experiencing the same issue, even uninstalled and reinstalled minecraft and that didn't help at all