My partner had a realm we have checked to make sure it's been paid for and it's all up to date we get to the "joining realm this may take a few moments"... and then it takes forever but say unable to join please try again later... we are on 1.14.60 Xbox one bedrock edition
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We're tracking this issue as REALMS-3921, so this ticket is being resolved and linked as a duplicate.
That ticket has already been resolved as Fixed and was caused by a temporary outage to the Realms service.
If you are still having issues with your Realm, please check for an existing report before raising a new one. Alternatively you can contact Mojang Customer Support for assistance with your service.
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