I'm trying to play with my friends on their server and everyone can connect except for me. I tried it on both my switch and now my PlayStation. It's extremely frustrating. We are all on the same version.
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I'm trying to play with my friends on their server and everyone can connect except for me. I tried it on both my switch and now my PlayStation. It's extremely frustrating. We are all on the same version.
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V1.16.40
1.16.40 Hotfix
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