Hey,
My son crafted a 21*28 (21 high and 28 wide) portal in the nether using obsidian blocks in creative mode and tried to light it up using flint and steel but it wouldn't light up. We were wondering why. He made another 12*17 one (12 high and 17 wide) right next to it thereafter and that lit up fine.
The maximum frame size is 23x23 (no dimension can exceed 23 blocks).