Chunks load lazily, then stop loading, then I disconnect.

This just happened today, I’ve already had my realms world and subscription for a month now, it just got renewed yesterday, but when I load into my realms it takes about 2-3 minutes where chunks try to load, then it stops, then I get kicked with a “Internal Exception: java.net.SocketException: Connection Reset” error. I do have performance mods (sodium, iris, etc.) and some client side mods (distant horizons, c2me, xaero’s minimap mods) but I tried joining my realms with vanilla minecraft and I still got the same error. This only happens on my realms server, I also tried loading a minigame realm world and still would get disconnected after 2-3 minutes. When I join a server like Hypixel it’s fine, when I play a single player world, it’s also fine.

I’ve also tried diagnosing my internet but don’t have a hotspot I could try to see if that is the underlying problem, I doubt it though because I am playing just fine on MC Servers.

I don’t know what’s going on with realms but I hope I can get help to fix it soon!