First, calm down and take a few steps away from your internet-connected device. Go have a cup of tea or something. do whatever helps you calm down. Then, walk back to your internet-connected device and have a look at what you have typed. Needs some Capitalization Correction™. Then maybe add some lists to make it easier to read. Add more info if you have it. Finally, read it again. Proud? Good job!
P.S Terribly sorry for your loss. I have had this happen to me with LAN games before so I think it is not BDS specifically to blame. You are entitled to your opinions though.
Your report could do with a rewrite. Take a look at the help guide https://help.mojang.com/customer/portal/articles/801354-writing-helpful-bug-reports-for-minecraft for a bit of advice on how to write a good report.
Uhh, can someone tell me how to delete issues? This one was created by mistake, and I can't find any advice on how to delete issues. Many thanks!
https://help.mojang.com/customer/portal/articles/801354-writing-helpful-bug-reports-for-minecraft