Just in case it helps...
When I turn off the "Destroy Block (vibrate)" setting in Minecraft, my phone still vibrates when blocks are destroyed when I play using a DualShock 4.
Prior to update 1.16, some blocks (torches and flowers for example) did this but not all blocks.
Since 1.16, every block destroyed causes vibration.
I have a Samsung Galaxy S9+, model SM-G965U.
I've attached a screenshot of my phone's software info.
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I found a workaround: if I turn my phone's Vibration Intensity setting down to nothing for Notifications, Minecraft no longer makes my phone vibrate.