MandandM

It may even be an issue regarding "xbox" servers, i have a latency of 200ms on any realm no matter its location. So perhaps a latency or packet loss issue.

@AkameMoe You can also try to reset your internet options, search for them in your search bar then go to advanced tab, and click on reset internet options. Sometimes it also helps.

Basically it just randomly happens when I try to connect to any realm or mutliplayer world.

I found out that I can bypass this issue by loading any local save then click "save and exit", and only then I can connect to the realms or multiplayer worlds.

And then if it happens again, i have to do the before mentioned steps again to be able to connect.

and after a day of being able to connect, now for last 3 days i am again getting this unable to connect message... for to particular reason

UPDATE...
After two days of not being able to connect, now that I've posted this report... the issue seems to fix itself..