I'm having this same issue, I have followed all the troubleshooting and still cant get on Xbox Serie s. i have reinstalled it on both my series s a few times and still have the same issue. but when I do it on my old Xbox one I can get on fine. so either there is an issue with the box series s or its something else. but I don't see it being a problem with my Xbox as I have 2 of them and its doing the same on both. i have been able to get on my realms two times so far and it get serious lag from it where I hit a block then 2 or 3 minuets later the block breaks then the server kicks me out. this has only let me in twice out of the hundreds of times I have tried to get in.
I'm having this same issue, I have followed all the troubleshooting and still cant get on Xbox Serie s. i have reinstalled it on both my series s a few times and still have the same issue. but when I do it on my old Xbox one I can get on fine. so either there is an issue with the box series s or its something else. but I don't see it being a problem with my Xbox as I have 2 of them and its doing the same on both. i have been able to get on my realms two times so far and it get serious lag from it where I hit a block then 2 or 3 minuets later the block breaks then the server kicks me out. this has only let me in twice out of the hundreds of times I have tried to get in.