My daughter playing on our realm just showed me her switch having same problem of crafting item taking the resource but new item disappearing. Also our realm disconnects all users if anyone goes to the nether...worked fine before they added foxes of all things lol
Is it by chance triggered whenever someone goes in to the nether? We have a family realm and for the last 3 or 4 days we just know if anyone goes to the nether it will almost immediately disconnect all user and progress is jumped back usually at least15 minutes. Very frustrating.