I'm having this same issue it's not just you
Sorry, for the laet reply but I just changed random settings and it fixed
I meant to mention people on my wifi can still join
I have been using a laggy free server website and I want to start doing modded with my friend but the free server can't handle that.
I have tried 1.17 (this issue is happening with bedrock and java servers on my pc) Port forwarding didn't work I have disabled my firewall nothing seems to work 😞
Do you have Xbox Live?
@markderickson Thanks!